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Showing posts with label Pope Francis. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Pope Francis. Show all posts
Monday, May 12, 2014
Saturday, November 2, 2013
Zaccheus encounters Christ
In
our second reading today, St. Paul talks about people who are overly concerned
about the Second Coming of Christ as well as the end of the world. Both events certainly
will happen someday but, as the second reading says, there are always people
always think the end is just around the corner. Paul tells them (and us) not to
believe every exciting tidbit that they hear. Paul tells them not to over-react
to everything that is allegedly from him and other authorities of the faith. Be
careful of what you get second or third hand.
To
me, this seems incredibly appropriate for our own day. People hear something
that allegedly our Pope has said, but it has been twisted like a pretzel by
whomever they are hearing it from. Yet people are likely to take it as gospel more
than the actual Gospel. In our culture, we are often getting a second or third
hand account from some organization whose purpose it is to constantly attack
our Church. The organization claims to be conveying a brand new message from
our pope, and this misinformation is believed more readily than the truth the
pope said, because his whole message in context is not accurately quoted.
People get excited over misinformation all the time.
This is what happens to me practically after every news report about the pope: I get a phone
call or an email saying, “Hey I heard the pope is changing what the Church
teaches on A, B, or C. As soon as I hear someone say that phrase, “changing the
Church’s teaching” without giving an explanation how the change fits with
everything that came before, I know something got mis-communicated. When you
read (or hear somewhere) just a few sentences without context claiming to be some
new church teaching or policy, and your inner alarm system goes off, because
this new message is completely out of character with the Church, what do you
do, what should I do, - check it out!
This
is exactly what Zaccheus does in the gospel today. Zaccheus had heard of Jesus.
We don’t know exactly what he had heard about Christ, but whatever it was, Zaccheus
know he had to check it out for himself, and not believe the interesting but
contradictory stories. To his joy and surprise, Zaccheus discovered that Jesus
was new and different. Jesus saw through him at a glance! Not only that, Jesus
did not turn away from him in disgust, but looked on him with love! Incredible!
That had never happened to Zaccheus before!
Everyone in town who knew Zaccheus looked at him with hate, because he
was gouging their money out of them, sending the legislated tribute to Rome,
and living most comfortably off the surplus he, Zaccheus, had milked them out
of. People would spit on the ground and turn away in scorn rather than exchange
cordial greetings and engage him in small talk, never mind visit him or invite him to their homes! As a tax collector Zaccheus was a pariah, and
he knew it.
What
was it that moved him to make a fool of himself in front of everyone by
climbing a tree to see Jesus? Maybe it
was curiosity, or perhaps Grace stirring his soul, but experienced by him as
curiosity? Whatever moved him, what Zaccheus did was surprising and
inexplicable to the rest of the crowd around him. He sought a personal
encounter with Christ, He wanted to see the face of this Jesus, see him as
close up as he could. He had no idea what the results would be.
He didn’t know beforehand that Christ’s glance
would penetrate him, make him feel naked, yet not naked and ashamed, but not just naked and exposed in all his sinfulness, but loved and forgiven, called and pardoned! It was unbelievable, but it was real. This was a
look of love that cleansed him and accepted him even as it exposed him to
himself. Christ also put that cleansing look of love into words and called him
by name: “Zaccheus, come down! I must stay at your house tonight. I want to pay
you a visit. Will you put me up? Will you let me in? Can I come and dwell with
you?”
The crowd was stunned. So much so that they voiced
their shock: “Birds of a feather flock together. If he is going to the house of
that scumbag, well, just what does that tell you about him?!" They didn’t know
what had taken place in the encounter between Christ and Zaccheus. But Zaccheus
knew. He had been made new. That’s why he unashamedly speaks with a changed
heart and promises to give his ill gotten gains away. He has to witness to the
merciful love he has just received.
So do I; so do you. So do all of us who call
ourselves followers of Christ. We need to take a page from the book of Pope
Francis, and speak out of the love Christ has poured into us. Perhaps it would
be a good thing for us to take the necessary step to have an in-your-face,
personal encounter first?
Saturday, September 7, 2013
Pope Francis on Gay Priests
What's your opinion of Pope Francis' infamous statement about gay priests? Actually that is not a fair question for me to ask, because most people have not read his statement, but what the Media has said about his statement. Everyone and his brother has sounded off on this topic, so I feel no obligation to restrain myself. After so much ink has already been spilled, on paper and on-line, my remarks may be seem like overkill. In fact, at this late date, I doubt there is any great interest about what the pope actually said. Even so, since the secular press has widely distorted and misinterpreted his message, I believe my attempt to add a pinch of honesty and accuracy is justified.
To begin with, here is a piece of advice that I followed and found helpful: watch a partial video of the pope's news conference (available at romereports.com.). The pope is speaking in Italian, but he is not that difficult to understand, especially if you have a little familiarity with Spanish, French, or Latin. And even if you do not, the nuances, his tone of voice, and his gestures add a great deal of meaning to his message. The video is much better than only reading the typed manuscript to get a proper sense of what he said. If you have to settle for a typed translation of the the interview, however, the most accurate one I have found is at Zenit.org. , in two parts. The transcript covers the whole one hour twenty-two minutes session.
Here's a sentence of the pope that went around the world: "If someone is gay and he searches for the Lord and has good will, who am I to judge?" His next statement got less attention: " The Catechism of the Catholic Church explains this very well. It says one must not marginalize these persons; they must be integrated into society". His third received as much attention as the first, but also out of proper context: "The problem isn't this [homosexual] orientation - we must be like brothers and sisters. The problem is something else - the problem is lobbying, either for this orientation or a political lobby or a Masonic lobby."
All in all, the Media made it sound like the Pope didn't have much problem if a priest was into a gay life style, so long as he was trying to behave himself most of the time. The Media's misinterpretation of the first statement was meant to create the assumption: Sure, any gay priest might have lapses now and then, and engage in homosexual sex, but so what? Gays are only human after all, and as long as they are trying to be good, God understands. However, the second statement of the pope with its reference to the Catechism develops and clarifies the meaning of the first. It is possible for a priest to experience sexual attraction to the same sex, not submit to the temptations, summon all the good will he can muster, bring the temptation to the Lord in prayer, and work successfully to remain faithful to his calling. In such a case, who indeed would the pope be, or anyone else, to judge such a man? Judging or condemning people who have same sex attraction for the fact of attraction is unjust and makes matters worse. The real answer is to help them address the issue, give them help and support they need in order to deal with the attraction, and integrate them into the communal life of the Church and society. Isolating and attacking people of good will only alienate them and sour their good will. It makes no sense for the Church to presume bad will and insincerity on their part, especially when they are seeking to live as her sons and daughters.
I believe that is what the pope was trying to say, but he did not have the linguistic tools to say it. He spoke Italian in the video I saw, and so far as I know, neither Italian nor Spanish makes a distinction between homosexual and gay the way English does. Homosexual in English generally means someone who has same sex attraction, while gay means someone who actively embraces and lives the lifestyle. But many men who consider themselves homosexual because of same sex attraction do not want to have anything to do with the gay life style. The one does not equate with the other automatically, no matter what the gay lobby says. However, in his interview with the press, Pope Francis uses the terms homosexual and gay interchangeably, because he is speaking Italian and Spanish. Given all the other observations he made in the interview, and the faith context of all his remarks, I believe the media's superficial reporting will result in much misunderstanding for all who assume their news reports to be accurate and honest.
Acceptance of same sex attraction does not imply approval of a gay life style Acceptance is simply the human and Christian basis for dialogue and ongoing support. In this country, given the confusion and lobbying in our culture, people who have gender identity conflict as a result of same sex attraction need assistance to deal with the issue. Such assistance is precisely what the Courage organization is designed to offer. Their website (www.couragerc.net) is a treasure trove of Pastoral wisdom drawn from the rich Tradition and Spirituality of the Catholic Church. Since the Church has to speak out clearly out against the gay lifestyle, it also has to offer its ongoing support to its sons and daughters who have same sex attraction and help them to lead a chaste Christian life. Many instructive talks, conferences, books, CD'sand DVD's are available on the Courage website. (The Director of Courage, Rev. Paul Check, was recently interviewed online by Catholic World Report). Catholics, especially deacons and priests, need to be made aware and informed of the resources the Church has to offer. The problem isn't this homosexual orientation, the pope said, because he "must be as brother ans sisters" in Christ's Church.
The problem is the lobbying. That remark certainly got the Media's attention. Like a hound dog sniffing for the scent of the rabbit it is after, the reporters had a possible whiff of something scandalous. A scandal in the Curia! A homosexual lobby there!? They must have been disappointed when the pope didn't wash any dirty laundry in public for them. Very few reporters picked up on the positive remarks the pope went on to make about all the dedicated, even saintly, men and women who work quietly and unobtrusively in the Curia for the good of the Church. Nothing newsworthy in that! No scoops or Pulitzer Prizes!
The problem is lobbying of any sort, the pope said. Lobbying cannot be ignored because it can become a concerted effort to promote error as truth, evil as good, and wrong as right. Lobbying can take the special interest of a minority and pushes with all its resources to promote that interest of a segment over the common good of society as a whole. By lobbying, a small segment can gain power and influence out of proportion to what is rightfully theirs, and even go so far as to entrench its power by having its interest legislated into the law of the land. Of course the pope can not be so naive as to let the errors of the gay life style be confused with the splendor of Sacramental Marriage in the Church, the true nature of human sexuality in the plan of God, and the beauty of the Catholic Theology of the Body, no matter what any lobby says to the contrary!
Wednesday, August 21, 2013
Pope Benedict on Homosexuality (continued) Part Two
This posting continues the reflections begun in the posting of 7/26/13.
Sewald responds to Pope Benedict’s comments on homosexuality with the observation :"It is no secret that there are homosexuals even among priests and monks. Just recently there was a major scandal on account of the homosexual passions of priests in Rome.” Pope Pope, being honest and humble, admits the truth of Sewald’s statement, but surprises me, because he does not say what I expected. I was anticipating something along the lines of the need for active homosexual priests to repent, just as priests who were heterosexual would have to repent of being unfaithful if they had sexual relations with women. Instead, the pope spoke out forcefully against homosexuals in the priesthood. This is what he said: “Homosexuality is incompatible with the priestly vocation. Otherwise celibacy itself would lose its meaning as a renunciation”.
I had been thinking, Well, just as a heterosexual has to renounce marriage with a woman, a homosexual would have to renounce sexual activity with men. He would have to be celibate in his own way. But the pope is not considering two kinds of celibacy, one for homosexuals, and another for heterosexuals. He views celibacy in relation to marriage, and marriage of course between a man and a woman. He continues: “It would be extremely dangerous if celibacy became a sort of pretext for bringing people into the priesthood who don’t want to get married anyway.” That makes sense to me. Being a eunuch for the sake of the kingdom does mean giving up marriage to a woman, and more than that. It means more than being a bachelor who wears a clerical collar. It means being fruitful and multiplying the sons and daughters of God in the new family his Son has established, the Church. I interpret the pope as meaning that the refusal of, or indifference to, spiritual fatherhood is the big problem. If a man is not interested in sacrificing being a father through marriage to a woman for the sake spiritual fatherhood, he should not be a priest. There are certainly bachelor heterosexual priests who are not interested in spiritual fatherhood, only in the priesthood as a career or a profession. But, ultimately, spiritual fatherhood is the natural responsibility of every male no matter what he labels himself, nor what his state in life. Without spiritual fatherhood, even if he is called to be single, he is a “barren fig tree” or a “dead branch.”
How does a man usually mature as a man, or grow and develop into his potential as a male? Usually by getting married to a woman, having a wife and children, by working hard to earn a living, by living for the family he has, giving himself for them, raising the children, and leaving sons and daughters behind him. If all a man had to do was impregnate a woman and then disappear, fatherhood would be easily accomplished. But a male becomes more of a man by being a husband and father, or to say it more simply, by fathering. Celibacy is a huge sacrifice since everything in a man is directed to finding fulfillment in and through a woman, the children, and the family he will establish with her. Fathering is his natural reason for being. The responsibility he accepts in marriage is what gets him out of bed in the morning and keeps him going. If a man has no desire for a woman and no desire to marry, and therefore becomes a priest, his renunciation of marriage is no renunciation at all. By becoming a priest he embraces fathering in a different form.
Pope Benedict continues: “The Congregation of Education issued a decision a few years ago to the effect that homosexual candidates cannot become priests because their sexual orientation estranges them from the proper sense of paternity, from the intrinsic nature of priestly being. The selection of candidates to the priesthood must therefore be very careful. The greatest attention is needed here in order to prevent the intrusion of this kind of ambiguity and to head off a situation where the celibacy of priests would practically end up being identified with the tendency to homosexuality.”
Of course the “greatest attention is needed”, but I am afraid that no amount of care and attention that can completely eliminate the problem. When it comes to psycho-sexual identity, there are as many possible scenarios as there are individuals, because every person’s psycho-sexual development has its own pace. Same sex attraction may be discovered during adolescence, before or after entry into the seminary, as well as before or after ordination to the priesthood. There are no absolutely perfect protocols, nor any foolproof procedures. The basic issue, I believe, is to face that same sex attraction is a disorder and to deal with it in a healthy way, instead of presuming, as our culture does, that homosexuality is normal and natural, and that the gay life style is as valid an option as marriage or the single life.
Here in the Northeast and East Coast, it may be already too late to head off the situation the pope speaks of, “where celibacy would….end up being identified with homosexuality”. Maybe it is different in some parts of the South, and in the West, and Midwest, where I am told the Church is much stronger. I doubt the situation is different on the West Coast, however. It may even be worse out there, for all I know. Perhaps demographers and sociologists can explain how our culture and values vary according to geographical location here in the United states. Maybe the situation is to fluid for any national snapshot to be taken.
Some concluding thoughts on "same sex attraction" occur to me in light of Pope Benedict’s resignation and the election of Pope Francis, which I hope to use as the basis of the next posting on this topic. I do not see the term “same sex attraction” in the writing, nor in their conversations of either pope. As far as I can tell they both use the word “homosexual” and “gay" interchangeably. Here in the United States a distinction between the two is made. A man who struggles with same sex attraction is said to be “homosexual” whereas only those who “come out” and embrace the gay life style with its culture, are classified as “gay”. I think this is an important distinction to make. Doing so would contradict the popular assumption that “gays are born that way” and also help explain how a good number of men who suffer from same sex attraction successfully deal with the disorder, and go on to successfully become fathers in the sacrament of marriage, or spiritual fathers the priesthood. Some, I daresay have even been canonized saints.
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